Memories..........

What is memory?? Its the ability of any organism to retain and recall information...it sounds simple........
but this mental ability sometimes leave behind a scar for the entire lifetime which cannot be healed by the best of medicines.....
Only time heals it.......and our ability to forget can only save us from the pain it leaves behind.....









Memories are the greatest gift god has given us...but sometimes the gift by itself becomes a curse too...."Adigam aanaal amrithum visham" holds good here!!!
Memories be it good or bad can become a curse at a later point of time...What an irony!!!
Good memories remind us of the good old days which are part of our past...a past that can never come back, a past which can never become part of our today...or our tomorrow

Such memories make us long for the days which have withered off and can never return again.....the longing for those memorable days can make our present day a hell!!!!

Flowers once withered off cannot bloom again!!! Memories, like the fragrance of those colorful flowers lingers in us forever....
A road once travelled where reverse gear never works........you always have to keep moving forward down the lane..........

Some memories gives us a pain so deep that at times we take years together to come out of it.....sometimes even the entire lifetime....

Inspite of all these, we leave behind traces to remember the past.......by traces i meant anything like the photos, videos etc which are evidences of a past we like to remember and see again and again and again!!!! sometimes i ask myself why do such gimmicks!!! does it make our present day any better?? i dont get a specific answer for that question but still I continue to treasure those moments!!!




Childhood is a beautiful phase of life which every individual cherishes in his or her memory forever..... Woh....even when i think of it now, my mind fills with joy....i had a wonderful childhood...those were the most memorable and happiest days of my life.....i am lucky to get parents who dote on me....i got the best of best of everything i wanted....at times, i wish i was still just their cute little princess.......i would be safe on their shoulders and no tensions or pressures of life would touch me......School life is a vital part of every childhood and we miss that life and friends too..."Oru vattam koodiya pazhaya vidhyalaya thirumuttathethuvaan moham"
I know these are dream wishes which can never come true but still what do i lose by dreaming it.....it is like a hydrogen balloon that has flown up and it will never be back in our hands....it can only be admired from a distance......never will it be within our reach!!!



If remembering the past (be it a better or bitter past) gives us tears, why remember the days which have gone by??
To end it on a positive note, live to the fullest in the present......fill ur life with the belief that today is better than yesterday and hope that tomorrow will be the best!!!!
I am sure that this belief and hope will fill our life with so much joy and happiness that there wont be any space left to think about the past!!!!

Comments

Aathavi said…
this was such a plesant post vidya....so true....we must fill today with happy moments for they make those happy memories we look back on.

"A road once travelled where reverse gear never works........you always have to keep moving forward down the lane.........."

How true!!
January 2, 2011 at 10:51 PM
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